I need a reality check about costs. I also wonder if there's any help. I feel like the only sane one. My parents are in their eights, and definitely in cognitive decline, but not in Paid Elizabeth eye older sexy companion needed asap of actual nurse or doctor care.
The men my brother hired microwave a frozen entree for dinner, moisten instant oatmeal for breakfast, and a hot dog for lunch. They help my dad stand up but only because they won't let me swap his favorite reading chair for this huge rocking recliner I can barely get out of, which he never used to sit in. They swap it back as soon as I leave.
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My parents don't even exit their giant to eat. The men bring them those little trays that Lean Cuisine comes in. My mom almost fainted when I gave them broiled chicken and freshly made salad. Serve salad in a big, lightweight mug so there's no chasing lettuce off the side of the plate.
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The night attendant is there 12 hours per day, between 8: His job is to stay in my father's bedroom, awake, but he usually falls asleep with a lamp on, and my dad can't sleep. I think they pay for too many hours of sleep and poor performance all around. He was stuck in "rehab" so long that his legs atrophied which is Sex with fat women Tamarac he needs the night shift now.
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Trying to work with him and understand why you are disagreeing about the care the parent's are receiving.
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I can relate to your situation more than you know. Compromising for the right type of care is what you need to focus on. If your brother is wanting the best care for the parents it does not mean the higher the pay the better the care. That is ridiculous.
I have seen this for myself which is the very reason i am working in this area. I would love to help your family come to an agreement that suits you both with the parents best interest at eyr. To see that you are not being taken advantage of by being charges astronomical prices and half ass care. My father just passed away in Feb.
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I'm sorry to say that I think your problems lay more in your dis-satisfaction with your fathers care than the amount of money being paid to his caregivers. I think this needs to be addressed. Please have a very frank talk with his caregivers and if things do not change then talk to your brother about replacing the current caregivers.
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I have plenty of experience from facility to residential and what is happening in your parents household sounds like a strong case for neglect, abuse and robbery. Please straighten this Elizabehh. Your parents should NOT be forced into poverty, live like that, nothings left for beloved family later?
Oh please. Get a lawyer, contact the state AG as well as licensing state agency of these thieves. Hello Home care can be quite expensive. If caregivers are from an agency though that fee might actually be appropriate. An agency relieves you of scheduling problems and things like that. Hope this helps. First of all I am sorry for all your parents hardship. Power of attorney can be changed as long as needwd wasn't a court order due to inability to make your neede decisions.Charlotte North Carolina Dmv Beautiful Woman Today
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I hope everything goes well with you. That is totally insane!!!! I was told a similar story last sunday and I had worked a 12 hour shift.
The daughter told me the monthly charge verses what the agency pays me. I suggest a report to APS, get a case nurse and the money will not last forever at that rate.
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They are taking advantage of your parents my heart is broken compaion you and your parents. I would talk to a lawyer and see what can be done.
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If you could move in that would cut costs. Then just hire a caregiver for shifts that you need covered.